Attract love with the right elements.
Love can be hard to find, but these simple tips can help attract romance into your life.
Valentine’s Day is around the corner. Whether you are single or in a committed relationship, it is likely that you will commemorate this day to some extent. To many, Valentine’s Day is about romance. Therefore, it comes as no surprise that those searching for the Right One will approach February 14 with much trepidation.
But fear not! Romance luck plays a huge role in feng shui. In this article, we reveal eight tips to helping you find your other half.
Tip 1: Spend time in Jurong or Tampines
If you are looking to impress your date or spend time with your spouse, you may want to give Orchard Road a miss. According to Grand Master Tan Khoon Yong of Way Fengshui Group, Jurong and Tampines are the lands of the “Flower Basket” and “Talented Scholar and Ravishing Beauty” respectively. These are prime locations in Singapore where romance luck flourishes.
Tip 2: Wear romance-enhancing precious stones
Besides looking pretty, these precious stones may bestow positive energies and benefits to help you in your pursuit for love.
Rose Quartz: This pink powder stone is said to radiate love and help dispel negative energies from past disappointments.
Pearl: Besides enhancing romance luck, Pearl is also a symbol of good health and prosperity.
Pink Kunzite: This beautiful crystal not only improves romantic relationships, but also interpersonal ones, making you more popular.
Moonstone: This gem is believed to incite passion and physical relationships.
Tip 3: Decorate your home with romantic symbols
Placing romantic symbols in your personal space can help generate positive romantic vibes and boost the qi in your love life. These include:
Mandarin ducks (Yuan Yang): Arguably the most popular romance “cure” in feng shui, Mandarin ducks are a symbol of devotion and loyalty. Place a pair in the bedroom to attract romance and desire.
Flowers: Flowers, especially peonies, have strong healing energies, and are said to help singles find their match.
Water fountains: Aside from symbolising steady wealth flow, the peaceful moving water of a fountain distributes qi, allowing positive energies to flow for enhanced romance luck.
Tip 4: Remember the auspicious hours for romance
Yes, you guessed it. There are actually lucky timings to find love. They are at 11am to 1pm, 5pm to 7pm and 11pm to 1am. If you want your crush to say “yes”, then you can consider asking them out on a date at these hours.
Tip 5: Switch up your makeup to attract a man
You are more likely to find success in love if you bring attention to your tao hua region through cosmetic use. Tao hua, or peach blossoms, is representative of love and attraction to the opposite sex in feng shui. The area between your eye and temple is known as the tao hua region.
For the ladies to attract potential suitors, cat-eye makeup and soft-coloured rounded brows are the way to go.
Tip 6: Position of the bed should complement the couple’s Bazi
The most important aspect of a bedroom is the position of the bed, which should be compatible with the Bazi of the couple. If the auspicious direction of the husband differs from that of the wife, a possible solution is to follow the husband’s Bazi for bed direction and the wife’s for room colour or accessories like curtains. In this way, the couple’s bedroom shall complement and benefit both of them, helping to enhance their health and relationship.
Tip 7: Feng shui considerations in the kitchen
The kitchen and stove are important considerations when assessing home feng shui, especially since they directly impact the health of the family and marriage. A couple of important factors to note are:
Having only one stove in the kitchen: As the stove represents the female owner, having more than one may give rise to the incidence of extramarital relationships.
Avoid placing sharp objects like knives below the stove: This is detrimental to the couple’s relationship because it signals the likelihood of frequent conflict and violence.
Tip 8: Incorporate auspicious colours into your life
Besides using pink and red, colours most associated with love and passion, you can also wear more blue or green clothing or accessories. The lucky colours of 2017 will not only help to give you that desired boost in your romantic pursuits, but also in all other aspects of life.
Thorns on the peach blossom trees
In the Year of the Fire Rooster, there are plenty of peach blossom trees on the horizon, signifying many romantic opportunities. However, be wary of thorns on these trees. In other words, your journey for love may be filled with “traps” in the form of lust, control and money.
Exercise caution in everything you do; if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Stay vigilant and be discerning of what is legitimate or otherwise. Remember, there is a fine line between fiction and reality.
With a healthy and positive attitude towards love, you shall maintain a meaningful relationship with your significant other or find your one true love. Happy Valentine’s Day!
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